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Brian Lewis's avatar

Ya, but it's not about progress. We can definite progress in any number of ways depending on perspective and goals; really, it's about power and who has it and, , "do i have any?" and "how do i get more?" With power comes rewards of in the form of an increased sense of self-esteem manifested in material display of wealth and respect in the community - both the community of peers and the actual neighbourhood community for me and my family members. "Progress" is a pretty word; "Power" is where we live.

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Maryam Mehrtash's avatar

Thanks Brian! You’re right—at its core, gatekeeping is about power. Especially in systems where people have had to fight to earn respect, holding onto power can feel like survival. But that’s why I talk about progress, not as a buzzword, but as redefining power itself. For me, real power is expansive, not exclusive. It doesn’t protect status at the cost of someone else’s potential. Appreciate your take.

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